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Volume I, Issue 25

September 18th, 2008

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- A Note From Rory:  It's Been An Exciting Week

- Featured Article: ADHD Is Still Greatly Misunderstood

- News & Announcements: Teleseminar / Teleclass / Parents Group

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A Note From Rory:

Dear Reader,

What an exciting week it has been already --- on so many different levels.  Our 1-year-old son, Gavin, has really taken to climbing on everything he can.  First it was just the sofa table (about 3 feet high).  He would more or less just grab the top and try to pull himself up.  Now his climbing has progressed to greater heights...  No pun intended.

ADHD Awareness Week has been a blast so far.  I have been a guest on 2 of Tara McGillicuddy's Blog Talk Radio shows.  Both of them are available for your listening pleasure...
I am also really excited to announce some upcoming programming that I will either apart of or sponsoring myself.  I am going to expand a little bit on this below in the "News & Announcements" section.

Oh yeah... I almost forgot!  Dr. Cerulli and I have been rescheduled to be guests in studio at AM 590 on September 27th, at 9 AM EST.  More info to folllow...
Rory Stern, PsyD
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Featured Article:

ADHD Is Still Greatly Misunderstood
By, Dr. Rory Stern 

I'm actually having a really tough time starting this article today.  Not because I don't know what to say... But rather because I am almost "speechless" about today's topic.

ADHD is still greatly misunderstood by so many people...
  • The public...
  • The professionals...
  • The media...
  • Our friends...
  • Our family...
Despite all the recent advancements in research, and our greater understanding of the brain, there are still people who doubt the existence of ADHD.  There really are people who believe it does not exist.  This was actually the topic of Tuesday afternoon's Blog Talk Radio show with Tara McGillicuddy, director of ADDclasses.com.

Tara wanted to know, "...of all the questions coming in, what stands out for you...?"  And while there have been some really profound questions, it still amazes me to see the volume of people who question ADHD as a legitimate condition.

There's a part of me that gets it...  But I still can't agree or get behind this idea that it doesn't exist.  I've just seen too many people... too many families whose lives have been affected (for good and bad).

What I find even more interesting is the perspective shared from a conversation I had this weekend.  I have long been interested in speaking with a medical doctor who is actively involved in the "gifted community." It's a widely held belief that ADHD is greatly misdiagnosied and overdiagnosed.  There's the idea that this diagnosis is merely "the flavor of the week..."

Even I'm Not Immune...


Now, I have to admit to some degree that even I find myself somewhat confused by all the names, labels, and diagnoses.  Even as a professionl in the ADD / ADHD community, I sometimes wonder about the true existence or root of this condition.

BUT - I do not discount nor would I suggest that it just isn't real...

ADHD is a condition that affects a lot of people.  And it's a condition that affects people differently. Perhaps that is what is so controversial about this condition.  We just can't see it...  We can't objectively identify what is going on within the complexity of the brain.

And why should we think that we can understand the brain?

I posed the following question on the radio show Tueday:

"Do we honestly think that with 6 billion + people on the plant,
that some of us will have different brains?"

Is it that hard to believe?  Or fathom as a possibility?

Bottom Line?

I have never once sat in a room with someone and thought - "Wow, they totally have ADHD!"  And I certainly don't see someone who is broken.  It's never happened...  It doesn't happen...  That's just not how I work.  Instead, I see differences!  And that's what we are talking about.

The brain of someone with ADHD is different.  Just like the brain of someone who is gifted...  It's different.

Don't let differences get in the way of what you can accomplish, or in what you can inspire a child to accomplish.
News & AnnouncementsVirtual AD/HD Conference

ADHD Virtual Conference

My colleague and friend Jennifer Koretsky (of the ADD Management Group) is
co-hosting the 1st Annual Virtual ADHD Conference.  Here is your opportunity to hear from experts like Ned Hallowell, Daniel Amen, Sari Solden, and many more...  All from the comforts of your home!

To learn more, please visit http://www.thetruthbehindadhd.com/conference.

This event runs during September 22nd - September 24th.

Teleseminar / Teleclass / Parents Group Coaching


I am really excited to have been asked back, to do another teleseminar on parenting, by Tara McGillicuddy of ADDclasses.com.  The talk is scheduled for Tuesday, September 30th, and I believe you can start registering already.

Right now the talk is tentatively called: Parenting Essentials: ADHD Or Not

I will be talking about the absolute basics of what every child needs...  And we'll be getting into when it is ADHD and when it is not.

**While it's a little premature, I am working on a 6-week teleclass program for Parents of Children With ADHD.

And Group Coaching is coming back!  Keep your eyes on the newsletter and blog for details.

Questions

Parenting Questions:

If you have questions about parenting a child with ADHD, please send me a note and I'll be sure to get back to you as quick as possible.  You can submit your questions online, or simply hit "reply" to this message.

Who Is Dr. Rory Stern?

Dr. Stern is a father, husband, son, "former therapist", ADHD coach, and information provider.  He is in private practice outside of Boston, and spends time caring for his two young children (3 y/o daughter Dylan and 1 y/o son Gavin).  His blog, The Truth Behind ADHD, is really an expression of a message he once delivered to children and parents while working as a psychotherapist.

Having left the workforce to care for my two children, I still feel the burning desire to share my message with others.  I am passionate about supporting children and their parents, and making sure that the right information gets to the people who need it the most.  In terms of ADHD, I became active in the community because too many of my patients and their families did not have enough information.  And often times, the information they were getting was as absent as the support and understanding they received from colleagues, friends, and professionals.

Dr. Stern's message is just as much about education and advocacy, as it is about understanding ADHD.  I do what I do because I want to change all that.  It is my intent to make sure that parents and children all over the world realize that while ADHD is real, it is also a label and a name to characterize certain traits and qualities that can do so much good in a time when there is so much bad.

"I don't want to see another child simply be misunderstood, mislabeled, misdirected, and mistreated," says Dr. Stern.

Professional Bits:

Dr. Stern earned his doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the Massachusetts School of Professional Psychology.  While studying, he also completed a Graduate Certificate in Executive Coaching.  He is a member of the American Psychological Association and currently serves on the National Board of Directors for the Attention Deficit Disorder Association (ADDA).
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you can connect with like-minded people.


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